Crypto inheritance planning: a plan you can finish this weekend
Most crypto inheritance advice is either "trust an exchange" or a cryptography seminar. This is neither: five concrete steps, one weekend, and about ten minutes a year of maintenance afterward.
Before you start: the two failure modes you're designing against
Every crypto estate fails one of two ways. Discovery failure: your family never finds the assets, or never learns they exist. Access failure: they find them but can't move them. A good plan attacks both, in that order — because the discovery failure is more common and cheaper to fix. (The full picture of what goes wrong is in what happens to your crypto when you die.)
Step 1 — Inventory (Saturday morning)
One page, plain language. Every place you hold crypto: chains, wallets, exchanges, DeFi positions, staked assets. For each: what it roughly is, and where the access instructions live — never the instructions themselves. The test for this page: if it blew out of a window onto the street, you'd shrug. If any line would make you sprint after it, that line doesn't belong on it.
Step 2 — Consolidate custody (Saturday afternoon)
Inheritance plans die of complexity. Eight wallets across four chains with three DeFi positions is a scavenger hunt for your heirs; two wallets is a plan.
- Move long-term holdings to one hardware wallet (Ledger and Trezor are both fine; buy only from the manufacturer, never second-hand).
- Keep a small hot wallet for activity, and treat it as expendable.
- Unwind the clever stuff. A yield position your heir must understand to withdraw is, for inheritance purposes, already lost. If you wouldn't leave your family a margin account, don't leave them a leveraged farm.
Step 3 — The letter (Saturday evening)
A sealed physical letter for your heir with exactly three contents: the inventory page, what to do first ("do nothing for a week; don't tell anyone outside the family; don't type anything into any website"), and who to ask for technical help — a named person you actually trust, not "someone at the computer shop." What the letter must never contain: seed phrases, PINs, passwords. A letter is paperwork, and paperwork leaks.
The warning about not typing things into websites earns its sentence: bereaved families are a targeted scam demographic. Anyone who contacts your family offering "wallet recovery help" after a death is a predator, one hundred percent of the time.
Step 4 — The mechanism (Sunday)
Now the access problem. You have three serious options, and the right choice depends on who your heirs are:
| If your heir is… | Best mechanism | Why |
|---|---|---|
| Crypto-native themselves | Multisig (e.g. 2-of-3) | They can run the ceremony; strongest against single-point loss |
| A normal person with a phone | On-chain dead man's switch | They need one wallet and one claim, years from now; no secrets change hands; see how it works |
| Unable to manage any wallet | Regulated custodian + will | Honest worst case: counterparty risk accepted in exchange for a purely legal process |
These compose. A common adult pattern: hardware wallet + a Will & Key vault holding the long-term stack with a spouse as heir, checked in on quarterly; the hot wallet handled by the letter; the exchange account handled by the will.
Setting up a Will & Key vault takes about ten minutes: deposit, paste your heir's address, pick your check-in period and veto window. It's free until an inheritance actually settles (then 0.5%, capped at 1% forever in the contract itself).
Create a vaultStep 5 — The rehearsal (Sunday evening, 30 minutes)
Whatever you chose, run it once with your heir while you're alive. Send a token amount. Have them find the letter, follow it, and (for a dead man's switch) do a claim on a test vault so they've seen the screens they'll one day see alone. A rehearsed plan is a plan; an unrehearsed plan is a hope. This half hour is the highest-value part of the whole weekend.
The annual ten minutes
- Re-read the inventory; update anything that moved.
- Confirm your heir still controls the wallet you named — and still knows where the letter is.
- If your mechanism has a horizon or timer settings, sanity-check they still fit your life.
- Check your reminders still reach you (email changed? phone changed?).
That's the whole discipline. Not a seminar — a weekend, then ten minutes a year, for the only asset class you own that has no undo button and no lost-and-found.